I watched Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade tonight with some good friends of mine (movies with people you love is always a good thing, right?).  When we reached the scene near the end where the old guy dies horribly by drinking from the “wrong” grail, I remarked that my mom had said, “Ashes to ashes, dust to dust” when we first watched this movie.  That scene gave me nightmares, not because of the scene itself but because after hearing my mother say that, I realized my own mortality for the first time I can remember.  That’s what death is in all it’s ugliness and horror.

My mom, as anyone who has met her would agree, is a kind soul and didn’t say these  words to scare me and probably didn’t even conceive that I would freak out a bit after hearing them in that context.  So I don’t want to paint her as a horrible person who scares children.  But ahouseholdkate and eclectic nerdery both agreed that I needed to post this story, particularly as it is Lent and this is a time we can use to reflect on mortality.

So when did you first realize that you would one day die?  How did it happen?  Has it happened yet?

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    • Josh
    • Posted February 8, 2008 at 10:08 pm
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    I think that I realized death was inevitable when my grandma or my dad’s best friend died when I was around 10 or so. And then I am reminded almost everyday with work and school. Going through the things left behind makes me wonder if mundane things I own will be interesting to someone in the future.

    • Sabrina
    • Posted February 8, 2008 at 10:09 pm
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    My mom went through a phase where she loved Stephen King and would read his books all the time and then talk about the plot lines while we had dinner. I learned very early on that nasty painful death was scary (especially at the hands of a homicidal alien clown). It would freak me out for weeks when she would recap some of the stories and I was in about 1st grade at the time. My family has never been one for convention or shielding the kids from the hard things in life I guess.

  1. I think the Indiana Jones movies cause more harm o children who see them. Remember the nazis melting when the arc of the covenant was opened?

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